We all have the voice of self doubt that whispers in our ear. They are our constant companions. Every interaction with other human beings provides these voices with an opportunity to derail us from the present here and now. 'What did that person mean by that? Are they angry with me? I wonder if I have broccoli stuck between my teeth?
It's ok to listen to this voice moderately. Sometimes we do get
carried away and this voice can moderate us. 'Am I talking too much?' 'Is it time to listen?' ' Maybe I've hurt this persons feelings, I should touch base again and clarify what I mean...'
But often this voice is destructive: 'There's no way you are going to get this job.' 'You aren’t very good, you know.' 'Why am I so dull? and ugly? and stupid?'
These voices need to be excised. Not repressed, mind you. You need to
sit down with them and give them a very stern talking to and then find a way to come to terms with them. Another option, one that I find works well, is to journal and write. If
you are really struggling with the voices, this is a great way to send them packing. Find a quiet place, sit down and write. Write
down whatever pops into your head. Write it down. Doesn’t even have to
be legable. Once it's written down, you can burn it up, tear it apart, drown it down or let
the winds take it away. It's not going to solve any problems miraculously, but it does clarify and allow your mind to be clear.
Julie Cameron's book Artists Way is a fantastic tool for those of us struggling with those ultra-self destructive voices. Check out her website as well:
http://juliacameronlive.com/basic-tools/creative-clusters/
Journaling in some way is like meditation. It's another way to quiet the mind and bring your focus into the here and now. Mediation is simply bringing the mind to the present moment and
each time it wanders off, bring it back again. There are specific breathing
techniques for meditation and posture. I don't recommend meditation without initally finding instruction. There are a few websites that can offer guidelines, but I find meditation with a group is more constructive for beginners.
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